Many people find confrontation and conflict difficult to handle. So, we should pay close attention to today’s readings because they all focus on our responsibility to confront people who have sinned against us and who have sinned against other people. Not only are we supposed to confront them, we are supposed to win them over. God, speaking through Ezekiel in today’s first reading (Ez 33: 7 – 9) makes the point clearly, if “you do not speak out to dissuade the wicked from his way, the wicked shall die for his guilt, but I will hold you responsible for his death.” However, “if you warn the wicked, trying to turn him from his way, and he refuses to turn from his way, he shall die for his guilt, but you shall save yourself.” Ezekiel and all the prophets took God at his word and spent their lives admonishing the Children of Israel for their wicked ways. This made the prophets immensely unpopular particularly with people in power and they suffered deadly hostility.
The Eighteenth Chapter of St. Matthew’s Gospel is sometimes called “The ecclesial discourse” or Dissertation on the Church. It presents us with a Christian code of ethical practice. The section we hear today, verses 15 – 20, outlines a grievance process we should follow when someone does something wrong. The object of this process is not to abuse, ridicule or humiliate our sisters and brothers in faith. Rather, the purpose is to bring them back into God’s loving community. In the Jerusalem Bible translation St. Matthew tells us “If your brother does something wrong, go and have it out with him alone, between your two selves.” If that does not work, “take one or two others along with you.” And, if that does not work, take the issue “to the community” and let the community decide how to handle the situation.
The challenge in following this process is doing it in the right spirit. St. Paul tells us in Romans 13:10, that “love is the fulfillment of the law.” And in Colossians 3: 12 – 15 he says, “Put on then, as God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, heartfelt compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience, bearing with one another and forgiving one another, if one has a grievance against another; as the Lord has forgiven you, so must you also do. And over all these put on love, that is, the bond of perfection. And let the peace of Christ control your hearts, the peace into which you were also called in one body.”
Father in heaven,
The perfection of justice is found in your love
And all mankind is in need of your law.
Help us to find this love in each other
That justice may be attained
Through obedience to your law.
We ask this through Christ our Lord.
Amen